Grief is not a disorder that needs treatment. It is not a problem that needs a solution. It is a healing and a complex, and at times paradoxical, process. It is both very challenging to live in the process and also amazing and at times awe-inspiring. Working with grief is about working with a process of healing that doesn’t easily fit our widely accepted singular explanatory psychological models and their preferred interventions. For this reason many practitioners find it somewhat confusing to work in the area of grief. Working with grief offers a real opportunity to integrate many of our theories and our approaches to care. This presentation will consider theories of grieving, principles of integration in the area and consequent practical approaches to care of the grieving. It will consider integration through understanding grief from viewpoints of neurobiology, development, threat and living in a world of uncertainty. It will consider how different common psychological approaches can be used in an integrative manner to individualise care for different grievers.